“Don’t forget to drink water and get some sunlight because you are basically a house plant with complicated feelings”
We are not only flesh and blood with some feelings, but we are energy and everything we cross along the path is based on that connection: positive or negative energy. The same way water has memory, we as humans, we create bonding, and we share emotions through our relationships. When we touch someone, we exchange energy, and those become later on our memories. Some of them are wicker and they dry out soon after we stop empowered them, but some of them are growing, like roots, deep inside our soul.
Imagine that connection as a cord, a wire that connects two souls; also you can call it:
- etheric cord
- auric cord
- psychic ties
- energy cord
The moment we are done with that relationship, the first impulse we have it’s to remove it; just slam the door and move away. Unfortunately the more time and energy we have invested in that relationship, the harder it is going to be the removal process.
We are growing invisible roots in every connection we have, some of them are beautiful roses, some others are weeds. But roots are there, regardless what is on the surface, deep inside it’s what it matters.
Everything needs time, and the same amount that was needed in order to grow those roots, we will need to remove and heal the wound.
It will be an easy process to be like a “rock-paper-scissors” game, but the whole process is a little bit more complicated.
Rock – it’s the bone of the relationship, the history that was written in the stone, the water that washed it, the wind that shaped it, the sun that warmed it.
Paper – it’s the engagement, the testament, all the messages and the words that were invested later in the night, the beautiful poems, and songs that were listened.
Scissor – it’s the strength and the power that is needed in order to cut the paper and to accept to get smashed by the rock.
We can delete the messages, we can ignore the vows we’ve made, but we can’t cut the bones that hold tight the history written in the stone.
We need that much power and strength to remove the roots of a relationship that when we are done with the process that feels like a hurricane passed over. We need the skills of a brain surgeon and the heart of a mom who lost her child. The healing process may be painful, may take time, and may change you forever.
The moment you detached your energy from the past relationships, you will learn to grow roots on your own, you will thrive from concrete and you will see the sun again.
“I am thankful for all those who said no to me. It’s because of them I’m doing it myself.”Albert Einstein
We are born from a seed, we grow with water and sun and we die only to reborn in a different form, stronger and powerful than before.
Believe in your energy, embrace your life, and let it go if need it.
I welcome you to follow the tale of that young lady who removed the negativity from her life and she continues to renew from every experience she had to overcome…
….continue reading the rest of the tale in PART 09